Posted on August 5th, 2008 by admin

No matter what else is in your life, a husband gets priority when he wants to see you, talk to you (in person or on the phone), go to bed with you or whatever he has in mind. That really shouldn’t be much of a problem if you’ve got a liberated man who understands your need to work and achieve.

I can’t imagine having any other kind of husband, of course, but I know many women who have had to try to turn a chauvinist into a man. What to Do with a Liberated Woman by Shelley Roberts and Fred Hilliard (Smuggler’s Cove Publishing) is a rather charming book on the subject. Just consider this: Out of every twenty-four hours, you can sleep eight and still have sixteen in which to put a husband “first” as well as fit in an important job, friends, lover, parties, politics, whatever is important to you.

Commitment to children I must leave to another adviser, as we said, but I would think your husband comes before them, too. My husband gets the grade A, number one treatment always; his breakfast and dinner (if we’re home) get cooked by me; I run the house and am available for every single business or other kind of engagement he wants me for. One is a little busy, to be sure but I get my hair done, get Cosmo to the printer, and for months I’ve been writing this blog. Organized and maybe a little dizzy! is what I think you call it, but one’s husband doesn’t suffer.

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