Posted on July 28th, 2008 by admin

You will have dozens of encounters with men dates we call them and little romances and affairs. No big deal; but once in a while . . . once in a while love comes. I want to write about that.

First, a few ideas about how to enhance yourself to him. But let’s stop right there! Don’t you deserve pleasing, too? Definitely, but a statistic or two, if I may. The latest U.S. Census reveals that, between the ages of thirty-five and thirty-nine, there are 13,000,000 women for every 10,000,000 men. Between the ages of twenty-five and forty-nine, women outnumber men by 1,250,000. These figures don’t reflect drug addicts, alcoholics, men locked up in jail, the homosexual population (four million acknowledged but 15 percent of total male population show “tendencies”), none of whom do us much good as love partners, so the reality is even worse than the statistics. Bottom line: There are too many of us, too few of them, and of the possibles, only a few will really interest you.

Being a mouseburger, you’re always going to attract whoever is out there, God knows like lint to navy-blue serge and when you’re young teens, early twenties these statistics will not yet mean much to you and you’ll love, be loved, without much effort. Maybe the man in your life is so crazy about you, the last thing you need to think about is how to please him but, even at your age, I think men can be like apartments. When you go out to rent or buy an apartment or house, you know what you like always exceeds what you expected to pay, no matter what you’ve budgeted. Well, the quality of man you need, regardless of your age, sometimes escalates to just exceed your ability to “pay”; the more credentials you have (brains, looks, success), the more he has to have to please you.

P.S. I have no guilt whatever about saying some men are better than others. We are all born equal in God’s eyes, yes, but not in each other’s. So if he’s good ( a lovely, sexually attractive man, also attractive to other women), you have to be better.

Tags: love, Machinations of Love